Welcome to the 2016 Samhain/Halloween/Mid-Fall Tarot Blog Hop. We’ve been doing these hops since Imbolc 2012. It brings me such joy to know that for these past five years, community-minded bloggers have gathered every six weeks to create a ring of posts that all share the same subject. It’s been copied by others (which also brings me great joy) so I know that original question “How Can I Be The Best Candle” truly burns on.
This time, we are asked by our wrangler, Louise Underhill of Priestess Tarot, to turn to our ancestors for advice. She challenged us to “seek their advice on what we need to work on in the year to come.”
So I did. First, I wanted to be clear on the questions as well as the intent. Once I had the questions, I took time to make sure I was mindful of my surroundings. I wanted to be aware of not only where I was, but who I was.
I opened up asking my ancestors to gather if they would. I requested that one of them step forward to give me advice for the coming year (in my Tradition, we treat Samhain as the New Year even though the validity of that has been brought into question.) Honestly I hoped that someone from my deep ancestral bloodlines would turn up. Maybe the daughter of that English king (not a very popular king, oops) or the German lawyer would weigh in on the questions.
Nope. I got a much closer relative. And I knew her the moment I pulled the first card. But first, let’s look at the spread itself.
The answers were pretty clear. Because of the reading, the answers were also quite personal. I’ll show you the card and give you the abbreviated answers.
First up was the Moon. With the binoculars and crawfish on this one, I immediately knew it was my mother. She was a Scorpio as well. I have a Scorpio Moon that rests in the 8th house so this could only be Mama. At first I thought it might be her mother, but the crawfish and binoculars were all Mama.
Next came the 10 of Swords. If I wasn’t sure before, this nailed it (pun intended). My mother once told me a story about a sparrow, a cat and a pile of manure. The lesson was to stop complaining about where you were. The main message I got here was, “Being weighed down by other people’s opinions is silly. That’s their energy, not yours. DO YOU.” On a side note, when I look at my handwriting on this question, the “do you” is very similar to my mother’s handwriting. Hmmm
Strength showed up as the response to the third question.
Her admonition here was that she raised me to be a strong woman. She reminded me that she had not been fair to me in one area (she took care of me when she should have let me find my own feet) but she felt I was getting better there.
The fourth question brought the World (so many Majors, Mama.) She was a bit fierce on this one which didn’t surprise me. Protecting her children was one of her strengths. Living with a Scorpion for a mother wasn’t always easy, but you knew she had your back. The answer was, in part, “Focus on the people who add to your life rather than take away. Be your own center.”
Finally, I pulled the Two of Wands. My mother loved that I wrote. She got to read the first book my writing partner and I ever finished. That book has never been published, but my sister called me. She was laughing because my mother, who was in the hospital dying from cancer (she passed away two months after), would not take any calls. She told my sister to tell them she was reading. Her message here was to take action. Do rather than be. The funniest thing was her “Get wet sooner” message. She’s the reason I keep .
Thanks, Mama. I love you and I will always remember you.
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I’ve long since held that this is the pagan/wiccan/celtic/heathen/druid… (you get the idea) new year and quite frankly I don’t see why anyone should or could debate it unless they plan to time travel or wait until one of my lot pop up and start going off about it…
I love this post, and it sentiments are not lost on me; I am a great believer and even more so now after my weekend that our ancestral lines have a connection to the people that we have been and do become. I think that this post demonstrates the love and willingness to guide that she has and you have for her.
Thank you for sharing <3
That’s a beautiful reading, Arwen. Thanks for sharing something so personal.
Lovely pic and lots of good advice. Thanks for sharing it 🙂
This is so beautiful, Arwen, in every way. “Do, rather than be.” I love that. Your mother’s name reminds me an incredibly lovely song by Los Van Van (probably one of the most famous Cuban salsa bands of all time) called Marilu: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JDSOv3GfvwA
I always love reading about your Mama, what a woman! And those are some wonderful messages. It’s so wonderful to have a way to connect with our ancestors, and hear their voices again 🙂
Thank you so much for sharing this reading, it is really beautiful and practical. I’m glad your mother got to read your first book and encourage you to forever be a writer.
I love your mum’s advice! I hope that the personal stuff is helpful to you in the coming year.