The enemy is not me.
How often do we hear some version of “Oh don’t think that. The enemy is in your head.”
Well, here’s a thought. How about if we don’t call those negative thoughts “the enemy” or “bad things” or any version of that?
How about we agree that it’s just a difficult pattern we are working on?
A challenge we are in the process of reframing?
any other more positive way of saying, “Yeah I get it. I’m negative sometimes but you know what? I’m working on it so stop telling me I’m bad even when you are trying to build me up.”
Grin. It’s a process, darling dears. Once you realize you’ve made it, you too can say you were an overnight success–it only took me HOW MANY years? 😀
Thousands of them. Literally.
Don’t worry if you slide. Please don’t measure yourself against anyone but yourself.
And even then measure the way they cut fabric.
GIVE YOURSELF ROOM FOR MISTAKES.
You know that’s why they are generous when they cut fabric right?
So aren’t you worth a few extra yards?
I think so!
Seek joy, y’all. Pass it on.